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Relationships and new jobs (Please come with open minds)
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Alright so...hmm, where do I even start with this I am realistically (not counting my chickens before they hatch but I still have to set things in motion regardless and think about things) facing a move due to a potential new job (cross your fingers!) It's a great opportunity, a dream come true, and I couldn't be more… -
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Women come and go, jobs come and go. If this is REAL love and not just a I hope this is the one and I'm blind (cause this "love" thing/emotion is.) then she should want you to do what you want to do and stand by your side. On the other hand, usually women in this triangle situation usually spend a nice amount of time with… -
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I'm surprised you would say this as a man. Losing my kids would destroy me. Not sure civility or sensibility comes into it; no way would I want my kids taken away from me. Especially not over a long distance. 'Every other weekend' or similar is an awful enough 'sentence' for a father; saying that seeing them only during… -
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I have been in the exact same situation. My ex = 1 woman + 3 kids from 2 separate fathers. With the tuggle-war of "should I, or should I not?!?" for myself. To keep quite simple. There's no relationship in long distance relationships. So lets knock that option out of the ballpark. Its really, the matter of stay and dream… -
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Maybe this thread wasn't such a good idea around St. Patty's day? I feel a little too much alcohol coming from some of the comments in here :P -
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The resentment will eat you to the core. She and the kids will always be the reason you never followed your dream. This will destroy you and your relationship. If you can do long distance try it but giving up on your dream for them will only lead to bad things. -
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I am probably not the best person to ask about this, since I've never been in this situation, I would go with staying with the woman you love. The job may go to someone else in the future, but there are other opportunities. Worse thing that will happen is you'll go to a job you hate, and then come home to the family you… -
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I think it's all about sacrifice / compromise. A lot of people have regrets, particularly with their career / relationships. If I was in that position, personally, I'd take the job, rough it out with the LDR, come out having no regrets and potentially be in a better position to support your partner once the projects are… -
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I'd say if you were looking for relationship advice, another kind of forum would be better. There's other things you can consider, such as there will be other job opportunities in the future, also job security seems low these days. There are other things to consider on the other side of the coin, such as what if you grow a… -
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Thought I'd drop by my experiences as a someone in a Long Term, Long Distance relationship for anyone considering it. Mainly because I've never given advice about it before but I realised that I've become an expert on it. the specs are: We live a 3-4 hour journey from each other, neither of us drive. we see each other…
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