Its not the perfect solution but if you use dropbox you can plop a .mov in there and then view it on your ipad/iphone with the dropbox app. You can save images from the dropbox app to the camera roll and i'm pretty sure you can do it with movies as well but haven't tried.
Because dropbox hosts the SWF as a file available for download, fairly sure if you use regular images dropbox does work though. There might be some way to make SWF on dropbox work but I don't know it. Try using imgur instead, it always works without any tweaking.