Last year, my fiance left me, I lost my job, wrecked my car, and got slapped with a lawsuit. I was in a bad depression for about 3-4 months. If you need someone to vent to, i'm your man. It was terrible, and the only thing that got me through were close friends. I suggest spending your time with some.
My immediate advice, is that it's never as bad as you think, and the more you distance yourself from it with time and activity, you'll see that. Though i know thats hard to understand now, but the best way to get past a breakup of any kind is to not think of it as failure, but a lesson learned. Focus on yourself, working out helps quite a bit. Mainly just be selfish for a few months.
There are many more reasons to live than your fiance and flying. I'm not going to list them for you. I suggest you continue breathing, and use the time to find them yourself. You have the right to be depressed for now, but I suggest you move on and stop thinking about an end.
Dang, that sounds really really shitty man. Don't worry, keep your chin up. Hard work will help you maintain.
Things that make me happy:
boobies, eating an awesome sandwich, sitting around doing nothing, watching your favorite tv shows, seeing a good movie in the theater, picking out a big booger, taking a monster shit, letting out a huge fart or burp in front of my friends, going to see stand up comedy, getting your dick wet, playing a fun video game, looking at stupid crap on the internet (4chan.org), playing with a puppie or kitten (cuteoverload.com), working out and looking good naked, and knowing that the future will bring some sweet ass technology to play with.
Feel better man!
First of all dont mix depression with booze. Bad combo, its makes things worse.
Second of all, all you can do at this point is try to keep your head above water. Get some of your mates to help you out during this time. Talk to them and be honest with your feelings. You may end up repeating yourself to them and sounding like a broken record. But in talking about it at least it relieves the internal strive somewhat.
Dude. How many chicks would love to get with a fighter pilot? Life ain't all that bad man. When I get down I have a sort of litany I recite to myself where I list off all the things I have instead of the things I don't have. A family that cares about me is at the top.
It happens man, I wrecked my car, GF of two years cheated on me, and I lost my job all in the last two months. And I dont even do anything cool like flying jets! Keep your head up, stay away from the alchohol when youre by yourself(partying might be ok, thats what im doing and being social is helping me).. remember dude, there is ALWAYS somethin to live for. Go do somethin cool that you couldnt have done while you with her, something just for you and you alone.
Wow, thanks guys! Sorry about this post first off, i got way too drunk.. I mean WAY too drunk. You all did help me put my life back in perspective, and I think I laughed 10 minutes straight at that loaf of bread. Hehe. Anyway, thanks guys, and sorry for bitching and taking up forum space. I'm okay now. Just hungova.
Just drop a 1 ton bomb on her house or fire a few missiles through her front window, whatever ordinance the jets you fly can be outfitted with. That'll make you feel a lot better.
Because life in itself is an unfathomable gift- one that we did not earn, but recieved. Emotions follow thought- realize that your circumstances are temporary, and repattern your thoughts. I'd say more but this isn't the place. Email me anytime if you want to talk.
Also realize that any red-blooded male on this site would give his left testicle to fly jets like you do. Especially since it sounds like you are on track for F-18's. I mean, holy crap.
Thanks guys, ive got my life in order, for the moment at least. I dont know what to say, you guys really made me feel better, you have no idea. It was also nice to see some very mature and awsome scopes on life, that really helped put me back into perspective. And yes, you may give your left knut to fly planes like me (email me, we'll talk), but that doesnt pull the chicks. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh geeze
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My immediate advice, is that it's never as bad as you think, and the more you distance yourself from it with time and activity, you'll see that. Though i know thats hard to understand now, but the best way to get past a breakup of any kind is to not think of it as failure, but a lesson learned. Focus on yourself, working out helps quite a bit. Mainly just be selfish for a few months.
things to live for?
nano tech
advanced computer graphics
cyborgs
cool robots
cloning
stemcell body parts, like replacement teeth
meeting new babes
and sex.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3W7DR4mlOf0&search=ernie%20sesame%20street
(Old School Sesame Street ftw!)
Things that make me happy:
boobies, eating an awesome sandwich, sitting around doing nothing, watching your favorite tv shows, seeing a good movie in the theater, picking out a big booger, taking a monster shit, letting out a huge fart or burp in front of my friends, going to see stand up comedy, getting your dick wet, playing a fun video game, looking at stupid crap on the internet (4chan.org), playing with a puppie or kitten (cuteoverload.com), working out and looking good naked, and knowing that the future will bring some sweet ass technology to play with.
Feel better man!
With my fave web comics-
Bob the Angry Flower
The Perry Bible Fellowship
fridays.
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SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE HAS A CASE OF THE MONDAYS
Second of all, all you can do at this point is try to keep your head above water. Get some of your mates to help you out during this time. Talk to them and be honest with your feelings. You may end up repeating yourself to them and sounding like a broken record. But in talking about it at least it relieves the internal strive somewhat.
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Also realize that any red-blooded male on this site would give his left testicle to fly jets like you do. Especially since it sounds like you are on track for F-18's. I mean, holy crap.