klein's friday night

kleinluka

hey so friday night was pretty interesting for me and i need some ideas.

my gf broke up with me over the phone and the neighbor's house caught on fire and burned out.

anybody have any ideas on what to do so the pain goes away? use this as a thread to talk about your own sad stories and how you dealt with it. im sure it will help whoever else is going through this or something similar right now.

PaK

There is that time period where it would be unhealthy to persue new relationships and you are tempted to just be by yourself and wallow in self pity.

Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself...that make you smile and laugh. Not so much 'forget' about the loss as much as pass the inevitable time peroid between 'getting dumped' and moving on.

It took me a long time and several relationships to figure this out, regardless of who ended it.

BTW, Did Brian leave his ciggarette burning while watching porn again? Did he save his guitare and run out of his apartment before he zipped up?

-R

Ninjas

Well, when my best friend died I was sad. Then I got more sad once I got used to the idea. Now I'm only sad a few times a year, and for that I feel guilty and sad. I don't know what the answer is.

Ruz

I Am going htrough break uop with my wife, so i know how you feel. I suppose its just time. The pain will go away in time i am sure

pogonip

I broke up with a girl ( The love of my life , but did'nt relize it at the time ) ) cause I thought she was getting in the way of my career . I adored her so much that I stopped doing anything else but paying attention to her and spending all my free time with her . We had so much in common and she was one of those woman you only find once in a life time ..a real soulmate if you believe in that . So I dumped her so i could focus on other things. She was so hurt she promised never to talk to me again . A few months later I relized what I had done and tryed everything to get her back but I hurt her to bad .. Nothing hurts more then to think about what I lost there even to this day a few years later it'll get my eyes welled up thinking about it to much. I wish I knew how to get forget her ..I feel for you kleinluka ..and im sorry about your best friend Ninjas I feel for you also..my childhood best friend died a few years ago also .

Ruz

wow pogonip. hope you feel better soon. life can be hard at times.