symmetry sim problem in Marmoset

rarebeef

there is a weird symmetry sim on my model in marmoset and it's not disappearing
it appears when I put normals map on it, but this normals map worked fine on both 3ds max and substance painter. 
I have tried to exprt this as .obj and .fbx with triangulate and tangent option

EarthQuake

Try setting the tangent space to Mikkt in the mesh properties. You may beed to flip Y in the material settings for the normal map as well.

rarebeef

@EarthQuake
thanks !