List of console/papyrus script commands http://mod.gib.me/skyrim/functions.html my bad, this is even better: http://www.creationkit.com/Category:Papyrus
In 3ds Max there is no built in method to transfer weighting. But I have a script that does this. https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/2904948/MaxScript/Skin_ReplaceWeights.ms